When its meant to be

Read from a friend’s blog and she mentioned blogging is no longer an event update, no longer a platform for us to update where we were, and who we were with because afterall, the people you are with are the ones who will be reading. so why bother?

quite true isn’t it. I haven’t been doing my random blogpost in a long time for the same reason. I am not obliged to write because every happenings and every memories are meant to be kept by self. And come to think of it, it has now offically became the platform where i rant all my thoughts and feelings instead of the usual event updating which we could otherwise do it on twitter or Facebook, simply clicking the “post” or “share” button.

to me, perhaps all these are growing up processes. we gradually grown tired of it, and simply stop doing so. its the same as photo taking. How we used to camwhore everywhere, anywhere under the sun but now, we have learnt to appreciate each others’ present and nothing beats having a good conversation with a good friend over coffee or meals.

was sharing with a girlfriend, growing up process comes in stages. For some, it may be earlier while for others, maybe later. so why the rush right? if its, meant to be, there’s definitely no escape route. so, i was actually worrying about myself because some of my friends have already think so much ahead. When to get married, when to ballot of a house, when to have a child, etc etc etc. Was feeling more at ease after talking them out with J, i can finally conclude because the day where i am going to have such thoughts are no where near yet. yes no where near. or rather, not my priority now because i need a job! 😉